Men with Large Instruments Don't Have to Go Down on Girls

The title is the subject line of a spam I got today. It was funny; in the beginning. And when I thought about it a little more, it turned sadder and darker by the minute.

This is a very sexist statement: It is coming from the notion that female private parts are dirty. That males with "small instruments" are not "enough", so they have to compensate. That going down on a woman is a sort of compensation...

I want to put this out there:

Men: do you see going down on women as a dirty job? Regardless of the answer, do you do it? How do you feel about it? Do you feel "adequate"? If not, do you think you have to somehow compensate for it? Or just live with the guilt?

Women: do you see going down on women as a dirty job? Regardless of the answer, do you want it? If the answer to the first question was 'yes', do you like it when you receive it? What do you think about men's "size"? If you think size matters, do you see some kind of compensation to take care of the "inadequacy" necessary? If yes, what?

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I don't know how much this is relevant or close to reality.

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I am on this swingers' newsletter which is delivered weekly. There's a section with links to articles related to the matter which are published in the media on the web recently. I am not advocating any of the material as interesting or such. Just wanted to keep track of the "stuff I've read" ; -)

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عاشقان

سرشکسته گذشتند،

شرمسار ترانه های بی هنگام خویش.

و کوچه ها

بی زمزمه ماند و صدای پا.

سربازان

شکسته گذشتند،

خسته

بر اسبان تشریح،

و لته های بی رنگ غروری

نگون سار

بر نیزه هایشان.

تو را چه سود

فخر به فلک بر

فروختن

هنگامی که

هر غبار راه لعنت شده نفرین ات می کند؟

تو را چه سود از باغ و درخت

که با یاس ها

به داس سخن گفته ای.

آن جا که قدم بر نهاده باشی

گیاه

از رستن تن می زند

چرا که تو

تقوای خاک و آب را

هرگز

باور نداشتی.

فغان ! که سرگذشت ما

سرود بی اعتقاد سربازان تو بود

که از فتح قلعه ی روسبیان

باز می آمدند

باش تا نفرین دوزخ از تو چه سازد،

که مادران سیاه پوش

_ داغ داران زیباترین فرزندان آفتاب و باد _

هنوز از سجاده ها

سربرنگرفته اند!

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I really don't understand the point this kind of people are trying to make. Either they are educated and want to fool their constituents or they, themselves are extremely stupid. I think that is mostly the second one.

And they have every right to explain themselves. The tragedy is when they take the power of government in any level: that is what we had here in the US for the past eight years.

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I couldn't agree more with this.

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Has anybody seen this movie? Netflix doesn't have it. Do you know where I could get it from?

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This is where the difference is: we 'atheists' are moral beings because we are human and have empathy. 'Believers' don't commit destruction because they fear gods. Which one are you?

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