Men with Large Instruments Don't Have to Go Down on Girls

The title is the subject line of a spam I got today. It was funny; in the beginning. And when I thought about it a little more, it turned sadder and darker by the minute.

This is a very sexist statement: It is coming from the notion that female private parts are dirty. That males with "small instruments" are not "enough", so they have to compensate. That going down on a woman is a sort of compensation...

I want to put this out there:

Men: do you see going down on women as a dirty job? Regardless of the answer, do you do it? How do you feel about it? Do you feel "adequate"? If not, do you think you have to somehow compensate for it? Or just live with the guilt?

Women: do you see going down on women as a dirty job? Regardless of the answer, do you want it? If the answer to the first question was 'yes', do you like it when you receive it? What do you think about men's "size"? If you think size matters, do you see some kind of compensation to take care of the "inadequacy" necessary? If yes, what?

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I don't know how much this is relevant or close to reality.

Only You. And You. And You.

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