The title is the subject line of a spam I got today. It was funny; in the beginning. And when I thought about it a little more, it turned sadder and darker by the minute.
This is a very sexist statement: It is coming from the notion that female private parts are dirty. That males with "small instruments" are not "enough", so they have to compensate. That going down on a woman is a sort of compensation...
I want to put this out there:
Men: do you see going down on women as a dirty job? Regardless of the answer, do you do it? How do you feel about it? Do you feel "adequate"? If not, do you think you have to somehow compensate for it? Or just live with the guilt?
Women: do you see going down on women as a dirty job? Regardless of the answer, do you want it? If the answer to the first question was 'yes', do you like it when you receive it? What do you think about men's "size"? If you think size matters, do you see some kind of compensation to take care of the "inadequacy" necessary? If yes, what?
7 months ago
6 comments:
I can see your point. Unfortunately, I do not feel open enough to discuss these sexual details on a public forum :)
Also, there are sad and dark things that are true "in general" nevertheless. For example, that human males by nature are seeking to find/dominate best females and spread their genes :)))
The size does matter but not the size of "the instrument", it's the size of the brain(Not literally!) but your post reminded of this episode in sex and the city Samantha Jones is so pissed at one guy's small "instrument" and she is complaining about it with her friends; she holds one of those tiny little breakfast sausages and asks: how would like to have sex with this? Very funny!
But i see your point and you are right.
From a guy's perspective that doesn't have a small dick and likes to go down on his girlfriend, I don't think the title is true. The reason I like going down on her is because getting her excited makes me really horny. I'm not the only one in this, I've talked to a few of my friends about this and they all agree. And if a guy is too grossed out to go down there, I seriously think they might have not come out of the closet. I was shocked to find out how many gay and bisexual guys there really are out there. Also, going down on a girl certainly isn't a result of a man's inadequacy or his need to compensate. When you're in the bedroom with a loved one, those types of insecurities don't matter. They're quite literally thrown out the window because there's more to it than sex. Pleasuring your partner by any means is just to yield the best experience. With that said:
LADIES: if you're with a man in bed that feels he's too much of a champ to degrade himself by going down on you, HE'S OBVIOUSLY THE WRONG GUY..SUCK IT UP AND MOVE ON. you'll thank me later.
p.s. and yes, it really is that simple to tell whether or not you should be with a guy.
Shit I need to start publishing this stuff.
I am more than adequate and I don't feel complete unless I DO go down. I love the female body from head to toe. And there's nothing I like better than orally pleasing a woman for as long as it takes. I like to make her go off before I even think about entering her. Plus, at least in my experience, if you pleasure her before intercourse, it feels even better for her. Any man that doesn't like to lap up every drop from the honey pot should look at swinging the other way. . .
Men: do you see going down on women as a dirty job?
-No
Regardless of the answer, do you do it?
-Yes
How do you feel about it?
-An integral part of sex
Do you feel "adequate"?
-Er, yes
Actually, I took the title of the article completely differently. To me it sounds like a guy with a large instrument can focus on only his own satisfaction rather than do everything he can to maximize the woman's pleasure. I didn't pick up on anything dark about it, just selfishness, which is equally sad. And unless the woman has bad hygiene, I don't consider "going down" a dirty job.
It seems to me that the author worded the title in such a way that it would trigger readers to overlay their own subconscious interpretations based on their preferences & practices, sort of like a verbal Rorschach test.
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